Monday, November 19, 2012

Shabbat in Omaha

A week ago, Laila and I had the pleasure of meeting the wonderful Jewish community in Omaha. There were so many highlights, it's hard to decide where to begin.
Friday night, after a beautiful kabalos shabbos, we spent the meal with Rabbi and Rebbetzin Gross, where we were joined by what seemed to be most of the local Jewish community! The Gross's are amazing hosts and an inspiration to everyone in their community, as was obvious to see.
After Shabbos we joined Omaha's 20's and 30's crowed for a wine tasting event hosted by the Jewish Federation, and accompanied by live jewish music. The camaraderie and love exhibited by all the member's of Omaha's major synagogues, reform and orthodox was beautiful to see.
A huge thank you too the federation for their warm welcome and introduction at the event! And the same to Rabbi Gross for his intro at Beth Israel on Shabbos!

Friday, November 2, 2012

Lessons of sinners and saints

What inspired Abraham to pray for the city of Sodem? Being as their's was the most wicked of civilizations at the time, why would the most righteous man alive go to bat for them? The question deepens when we understand that Abraham related to Hashem specifically through kindness. He saw Hashem as the attribute of kindness and recognized that everything He did was ultimately kind and merciful.
So how did he assume to be kinder or more knowing than The Creator of kindness? When he prayed for Sodem, he sounds almost accusatory towards Hashem. "Would you destroy the righteous with the wicked?" How could any mortal human being address The Devine in such a manner?
The answer, we learn from the Torah portion of Noah. The lesson began even earlier in the first story of the Torah. When Adam sinned, he excepted his judgment for all the reasons we just mentioned. It hadn't occurred to him that he could try to defend himself, thus seemingly contradicting the will of his Creator. Only when Cain was punished, our sages taught that Adam waited outside of the garden. When he saw Cain come out alive, he was shocked! "How did you escape justice?" He asked. "I asked for forgiveness" was Cain's answer.
That encounter brought a whole new, unique concept to the world. Tshuvah/repentance.
The idea that a person isn't bound to his faults, and doesn't have to suffer the consequence of his sins if he repents. Of course Adam didn't know this, because it's almost an unfathomable notion. So when he saw Cain come out relatively unscathed, he was shocked and he cried. Because had he known, he would have repented, and possibly kept death from the world altogether.

Noah learned another lesson the hard way. As we know, in his generation, the people were wicked to the extreme. They had corrupted nature to the point that Hashem saw fit to start over. After the flood, Noah looked at the vast empty world and begun to cry, mourning the loss of life that he had witnessed. Hashem came to him and reproached him saying "Now your crying?! Why didn't you cry all those years you were building the ark? Then you could have saved them, now what's done is done!"
Though Noah had learned the lesson of Adam, it hadn't occurred to him that he could pray on behalf of another. If a man could promise to change, what promises could he give on his friends behalf? The cost of this lesson was the destruction of a generation.

Abraham was a fast learner. He understood from past events what was expected of him. So when he saw destruction coming to Sodem, he began to argue their case. He went to war with Hashem! Though even Abraham fell short of saving a nation in the merit of one man. That lesson would be taught much later by Moses in the desert.
The lesson for us is to never give up hope. Not on ourselves or on others. There is always a way if we want it enough. Hashem is the mercy and the merciful. His capacity for forgiveness is infinite. So when we see suffering in the world, either our own or other's, we should remember these lesson's and be prepared to "fight" with Hashem for mercy. Don't worry, he wants us to win!

Thursday, November 1, 2012

Glad to be back in Nebraska!

Last week I arrived home from Washington State, where I was supervising the kosher grape juice production at Treetop in Prosser. Washington is a beautiful place, but i found myself missing Nebraska more and more every day I was there. One of the other Rabbi's there from New York, said to me "I don't think there are nicer people in the world than the people in Seattle." I told him, "I guess you've never been to Kearney!"
It's good to be home.

So after a quite Shobbos home with my family we made our way to Omaha on Sunday. Laila spent the day setting and styling wigs for the Jewish women of Omaha, and i had the opportunity to spend some time training Rabbi Mizrachi to perform kosher slaughter for his his new post as Rabbi in New Zealand. Rabbi Mizrachi was the assistant Rabbi in Omaha for the last five years. His wife, Talya administered the Mikvah there and we are sad to see them go. We wish them a lot if Mazel at there new post!

Before our day got underway, we had breakfast at Omaha's "Bagel Bin" with the chief Rabbi of Nebraska, Rabbi Gross, and his wife Miriam. We spoke about ways to work together, and I'm very excited to speak with him again and coordinate our efforts. Rabbi Gross has a great blog and mentioned our meeting this week there. Check it out at : http://www.amerabbica.com/2012/10/new-zealand-akko-jerusalem-and-kearney.html?m=1

With Chanukah on its way, I'd love to hear from all of you with idea's for bringing the light of Chanukah to local Jews who might not otherwise experience the holiday. As well as idea's for how we can best celebrate together as a community.